1 player online smh, ive had 3k visit my server, and a good player base. Every single person who has played on my server has enjoyed their time on there. Your assumptions show your mental age.
For your point of me being the reason..
You've gotta understand some something, having 100 plugins on your server doesn't matter as long as your server runs smoothly. My server had 1GB of ram, with just that much i was able to make it steady while providing players with alot of things to work with ( gameplay mechanics, which are absolutely necessary )