Thank you. There were errors, so I have removed the plugins that were causing them and some other plugins that I don't need. Trying again, the server doesn't even appear to be registering the fact that I am trying to join and I am getting the same message
Edit: so, it seems to be working, kind of. the server is coming online with the /join command, but once it is online I am having to relog and do /join again to be taken to the server. At least it is working now. Thanks for the help!