modern575

I have Opped me and my friend so that we can do stuff, because the default rank didnt let us do stuff, but is there a way for me to derank us into a rank where we can do stuff (like sleep - if we are opped we are asked to just time set day) but we can't use OP commands (like /give @s diamonds 64)

1. Bedrock Edition I have heard that this supports Bedrock Edition but I don't know how to set it to this version instead of java, can someone please tell how to do this? 2. Host Joining I don't know whether this is to do with the type of Minecraft, but right now I can't join my own server. If this is not to do with it being on Java not Bedrock, how do I join my own server, if I can.