Ok thanks! But my friend had health adn could die and get punched by me but he could still fly and not take fall damage. I meant at the last line that our items were not dropped out when we died so they were gone at the same time we died.
How do i set my server to normal survival to all? Me and my friend tried to play but he could fly even if he was in survival and he couldnt take fall damadge but i coudl. whe couldnt drop items when we died so they just dissapeard!