A player whom I’m not going to mention joined my hardcore world and killed me even before I asked him to stop and say or else I’ll grieve his server which is 50/50 owned by me but he kept quite over the vc and killed me thereafter I knew that grieving and threatening are not allowed that’s y I gave him a chance to say sry and let bygones be bygones but he refused and banned me from his server I then pardoned myself and asked him one last time he refused and then I made a backup which he does not know about so that if all goes wrong I can use the backup and then tntgun his server we fixed it up later with world edit but a part that was made completely without world edit was destroyed I spent abt 1h on it while he had spent 4h on it the player refuses to talk to me and reported me.Should I report him ask to not get punished appeal or receive my punishment for grieving is server I want to know if I’m in the wrong or he is or we both are